What do you say when meeting the family? Not this apparently. About a year ago, my fiancĂ©’s grandparents had a barbecue, so I met the bulk of her family all at once. I remembered that she’d been raised Fundamentalist, but I guess I didn’t realize how strict they were. My bad. They were angry. I was unsettled. My fiancĂ© and her sister thought it was hilarious. Life goes on.